Academic studies can be fascinating So we decided to strip away all of the scientific jargon and break them down for you.
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If subjects were interested in sex with any of the people in the photos who also expressed that desire toward them, a date would be Women want casual sex Abiquiu -- a. Since it was subjects' potential concern for their safety that made the study a poor indicator of true willingness to engage in casual sex, the researchers told participants here that they would film the first 30 minutes of the date -- in effect ensuring their safety for at least 30 minutes.
The Findings The rates of Women want casual sex Abiquiu in casual sex were exactly the same for men and women when they were taken off the streets and into a lab that controlled for all WWomen the stigma and potential danger women often face. The Takeaway Turns out, when you remove societal judgement and safety risks, women are just as DTF as men are.
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