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I don't keep anything from my fwb, and he doesn't seem to keep anything from me We've talked about our dreams, goals, fears, regrets, relatonship.
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It sounds like you are very straight forward about what you're looking for and I don't see why you're getting negative responses from so many guys. It could be just a double standard thing where they want Seeking fun fwb relationship date multiple women but Seeking fun fwb relationship have it go the other way.
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Seeking fun fwb relationship was sticking with men my age and older since that's what I'm used to in my normal social circle. Do you think there are enough something males who'd want to casually date a something female?
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Especially as I have to decline their date offers when I see they have it listed that they want kids. Idk, maybe I'm weird but I read someone's profile before I contact them, even if they're physically attractive. I don't think it's weird at all to read someone's profile before contacting them.
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I'm Seeking fun fwb relationship glad to hear that things worked out so well for you and your wife! Not everyone uses the same definition for those terms.
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But I wouldn't necessarily expect her to already have a long-term friend with benefits. After we've hooked up a few times, if she wants to keep hooking up, then we become FWB.
We continue hanging out, hooking up and going on dates; but that's all. She won't expect the relationship to progress.
She will never want to move in, get engaged, or have children with me. However, once we're FWB, I prefer monogamy.
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But they are not looking to share a sex partner, even a casual one. I'm sure a few of them are true believers in a double standard. I would not be surprised if some of them were looking for an arrangement in which they have multiple partners, but those partners only have sex with them.
But I think it's more the former than the latter. Most guys aren't real keen on the idea of sharing. We always seem to behave like we're competing for stuff. Your current fwb means they are in second place. They might not have thought that far ahead. The negative experiences you're encountering are not exclusive gelationship the nature of your dating search. Most internet dating includes an alarming number of negative experiences.
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