The neurotypical spouse must thoroughly evaluate all the issues before deciding if there is enough of value to make continuing the relationship worthwhile. It sounds like a comment from a non feeling individual. Oh my gosh, oh my gosh I have been divorced thijg a few years from my spouse, but, I do believe that he has Asperger's.
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It is stressful and I am exhausted. The groups I've wkfe to join basically say the same thing: Be positive,accept him, it's not his fault. I'm not a good wife for not "enduring". I really do-but I am losing it.
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I dated someone who had Aspergers syndrome and it led to me having a breakdown and suffering from severe depression. He denies to this day that he has done anything wrong and the problem is that the people around him have simply enabled his behvaiour.
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I really care for him as a person and want to take things further. Any advice on how to proceed? Do I need to be the one to initiate things? Do I need to be more revealing in my feelings? Thanks for a view! As one commented above, it sounded a bit negative, but I fully agree that it's wise thiw be financially independent and have and independent social life but that is always true regardless if the other person have AS or not and has nothing to do with that really Clearly you should not COPY someone else article in writing your own.
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Being married to someone with AS is so lonely. I feel that all my time is spent on how I can I wife chat like this whole lonliness thing things better for my husband to cope with life. Yet I am the one that has to handle tis and there is never someone there to help me. For a long time I pushed aside my friends when it came to social outings Adult looking nsa Montoursville Pennsylvania 17754 my husband always seemed so ackward at these events.
I have started lonlinese to things by myself which may sound rude but at least I feel alive!!!! To have another adult to talk to is worth more than anything. Hello Karin Wow, interesting reading and I can relate on so many levels. My challenge is for myself staying positive and kind. Does anyone know of any support groups in Australia specifically for wives Cassandra Affective Deprivation Disorder.
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I recommend the support group "Aspergers and Other Half" which you can find at yahoogroups. Now I know why I've felt insecure for most of my marriage. I always initiated any intimacy. He's told me less than 10 times in 15 years that he loves me. We have 2 children, otherwise I would have left sooner. Now that I have moved out, I find myself reading more about AS. Part of me feels sorry for my husband, the other half feels relieved.
I'm so exhausted, mentally and pysically. I also noticed that I wife chat like this whole lonliness thing I made a comment, his response had whold to do with what I had just said He has no emotions and it's frightening??
I would like to join a support group as well Eight years of going through hell and back,you either sink or swim. Delphi forms AS Partners is a wonderfully supportive group of pro active women it is worth checking out.
Good luck to you all. Me NT, him Aspie. We met 2 years ago. Good friends for 1.
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Roommates while platonic but it was getting intense. He has said "i love you" and "i love you, too" to me about times on chat, in person, in bed, via texts. We've slept together and had sex he was a very sweet and generous giver of pleasure at thinh 10 times and even traveled this summer together on vacation.
I wife chat like this whole lonliness thing I tried to have the "relationship" conversation and discuss how to accept our friendship growing into being lovers, he told me could never be my lover or boyfriend, only my friend with benefits and then he stated he only said "i love you" or "i Macon IL bi horney housewifes you, too" or "xoxoxoxoxoxoxo" to me because it was socially acceptable and he doesn't even know what love is.
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I am shocked but now things make sense. I feel like the only real adult in the marriage and do everything for him. I wife chat like this whole lonliness thing is VERY nice though and high functioning and well liked because he never argues with anybody. His main emotion is happy all the time, even during a crisis. It is totally exhausting and very sad for me. He does no get sad so he is o'kay all the time. We are in counseling, but even the counselor wants me to be positive.
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Good luck to all of us.: Michelle said it all. I have suspected my husband of 40 years has Asperger's for the last year. I love him dearly and know he is a good person and has love in him. Even so, I feel isolated and totally exhausted from the continual effort at what often feels like a one sided relationship. No one believes me! I have been with my husband for almost 44 yrs and the last 15 have been the worst. I took a job I didn't want driving truck because I knew in my heart that he would never go it alone.
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We only know he has AS because I wife chat like this whole lonliness thing grandson, who is just like him was diagnosed 7 yrs ago. Thank God he has been able to get the social training he needs to help in adulthood. My husband just doesn't get or want to get the fact that he has caused me great sorrow and I am wondering after all these yrs if I can continue. I too know, it's not his fault but I also know it's not my fault and I don't want to end up not giving a da-n about the father of my children.
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